When you're feeling a little flushed with energy, put together an Alanya-to-go pack. Maybe even a couple of them. One that has all of your work supplies, and another that has all of your relax supplies. When Scott is home and you want time away, then you go on a walkabout. If there is a local public library around, I bet they won't mind if you use their space. Hell, they often are tickled pink to have someone teach classes in their space with prior arrangements made.
Kid and Scott will want your attention when you're there. They love you and enjoy your company. Kid and Scott will default to you, since you are Kid's primary caretaker. If you leave, it forces them to learn how to bond more. And you get your time away.
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When you're feeling a little flushed with energy, put together an Alanya-to-go pack. Maybe even a couple of them. One that has all of your work supplies, and another that has all of your relax supplies. When Scott is home and you want time away, then you go on a walkabout. If there is a local public library around, I bet they won't mind if you use their space. Hell, they often are tickled pink to have someone teach classes in their space with prior arrangements made.
Kid and Scott will want your attention when you're there. They love you and enjoy your company. Kid and Scott will default to you, since you are Kid's primary caretaker. If you leave, it forces them to learn how to bond more. And you get your time away.