Gone to friends-only

[ayalanya]

It took me a while to decide this was necessary, but since my Livejournal/Dreamwidth handle is the same as my current official website and email address (both present on my business card), it seems like a potentially bad idea to publicly discuss some of the things that go through my mind. I'm torn, of course; I want to remain as transparent and public as possible. But I also need to be able to talk about the things that aren't entirely good in my life, and Facebook is not the right forum for such things. Hence: this journal is now (mostly) friends-only.

Comments

[tigira.livejournal.com]

Mine has been on a "friends only" default since well before F was born.

I totally understand.

[ayalanya.livejournal.com]

Yep. :)

[lilith42.livejournal.com]

I totally get it. I use FB for minor daily complaints, games and the occasional sharing of news stories (which is apparently enough to offend people as it is.

My LJ is where I really let my feelings flow. I do not censor myself since only a handful of people (no actual family) view it.

[ayalanya.livejournal.com]

I was a lot more open on Facebook, even, until I got chewed out for not being the happiest new mother that's never existed. Then I got chewed out for daring to suggest that maybe not everyone can do all the activism at once (so maybe it's okay to start small, because at least it's a start). So now I try to keep my complaints purely on the physical level, and mostly act like my life is the most perfect thing you've ever seen, and I have no political or social opinions at all. Which is stupid, vapid and stifling.

[elionwyr.livejournal.com]

..That sounds horrible.

[ayalanya.livejournal.com]

Both people removed themselves from my life, so in my less-vulnerable moments I'm okay with it. But my in-laws are on Facebook, and ex-coworkers who still work for the company that Scott works for, and...it's just more prudent to stay light and avoid making waves.

[elionwyr.livejournal.com]

I can see that..

[dakotakym.livejournal.com]

I'd love to be added, if you're comfortable with that..

[ayalanya.livejournal.com]

I think I have finally figured out who you are (I may have asked you at some point too, but I can't remember. You have way too many parallels to the person I think you are, so I have an educated guess), so yes. :)

[dakotakym.livejournal.com]

Oh! I'm Kym; we've communicated more often in other realms (though I thought here too.. but perhaps I'm either mistaken, or the connection wasn't clear). I assure you that I don't bring chaos of the detrimental variety to the party..

[ayalanya.livejournal.com]

We've communicated here, but it took me looking through every comment you've posted to say "hey, I think that's the Kym I know!" - although I think I guessed it at some point some time ago, I just didn't solidify the guess until, well, now. Sometimes I am dense. And uh, having gone back on coffee, I'm now feeling the lack every morning.